Should I or Should I Not Say?:

Backstory

Last summer, I realized Eve released a new album. Eve being one of the few artists I listen to that when I see that little "E" next to the album, I actually wonder if every song is going to sound like $#&! %$#* @*$!.  But I noticed Missy Elliott was featured in a song and was so excited to see two of favorite female MCs back at it, I bought it.

The "E," which denotes explicit content, is the MP3 equivalent of the parental advisory labels that appear on CDs. Except, nothing stops me from buying the explicit content online. I'm sure there are switches parents can check, but I'm also pretty sure their kids know more about getting around that than the parents know about actually setting the feature...

Anyway, I give the album a listen and am shocked when I hear the b word in the middle of the chorus. Immediately, I assume I downloaded the wrong version by accident, but when I double check, it is in fact the clean version! To prove to myself I wasn't crazy, I searched my music for an older Eve song--"Gangsta B's (featuring Da Brat and Trina)"--from her Scorpion album which was released in 2001. As I surmised, the b word is bleeped out every time on the edited song. I've notice lately, the only words record labels consider explicit now are apparently the n word and the f word. O_o

A large number of my Christian friends are against the idea of listening to secular music in general. Two of those friends have already written well thought out posts on the topic:

1. Hear No Evil, See No Evil, Speak No Evil -- by FantasticFo
2. Beware the evils lurking in our music -- by Danyelle Davis. 

I agree with every thing these ladies have said, but as a writer my ideas on censorship of words get a little more complex. 

Music Lyrics vs. Poetry vs. Censorship

Music and poetry go hand in hand, after all lyric is a type of poetry and thus lyrics to a song are a poem (though often with mainstream music it doesn't feel like it).

I've often been caught at a standstill on the topic of censorship and boycotting secular music, solely because I find there are a decent amount of songs that are labeled explicit that are actually really good poetry. The conservative voice in my head may be yelling bloody murder at the artists, but the writer in me definitely sees where they were going artistically. Below are some examples (click the song title for full lyrics):

Violence

Song: "Russian Roulette"     Album: Rated R     Artist: Rihanna

Yes, this song is violent. It's about playing with your life, and gambling--all things that as my friends and grandfather (who's a preacher) point out as anti-Christian. However, it's a brilliant analogy of her personal situation: falling in love with the wrong person. I don't know Rihanna personally, so I can't say for sure, but I'm pretty sure she did not know that Chris Brown was a woman beater when she began dating him. I think her actions post-incident are not necessarily in her best interest, but that doesn't change what happened before he hit her: she took a chance and fell in love with him. The song expresses this perfectly; you can't always predict when the risk you take is going to backfire vs. turn out in your favor. In some instances there are warning signs and indicators a person can and should pick up on that should steer them away from unfavorable situations. This is even expressed in the lyric:

"And then I get a scary thought, 

That he's here--means he's never lost"

When I think about the possibilities of what the lyrics may mean to her or for other people who've been in that situation, it's hard for me to classify the song as "vulgar," "explicit," and "bad." It's hard for me to say "Oh, Rihanna, you should have walked away from that song. That shouldn't be playing on our radio!" To me that's like saying books like Roots, The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn or The Hunger Games shouldn't have been written...

Curse Words

Song: "White America"     Album: The Eminem Show     Artist: Eminem

It's no secret that Eminem songs are laden with curse words. He caused a major controversy when he came on the rap scene. His lyrics aren't any worse than other rappers of his heyday, though. So why the controversy? Because Eminem took hip-hop and rap from the 'hood, to mainstream white America. That's exactly what the song is about. Suddenly, people were worried about hip-hop and rap now that their kids were listening to it. Everything he says in the song is pure truth. Yeah, he drops the f bomb not once, not twice, but a couple times. But the question is, could he have created the same tone without it? Would you still feel the anger and tension? That's the poetic question to censorship, isn't it?

Sex 

Song: "S.E.X."     Album: The Phoenix     Artist: Lyfe Jennings ft. Lala

Like the name of the song implies, the song is about sex--but it's not sexual. It's a conversation from a grown man to a young girl about thinking before she acts, respecting herself, and not letting sex control her decisions.

"You say that you're not ready for sex, but you're in love
He says if you really loved him, you would give it up
Momma says that's just a line guys use to get yo' stuff
Which one will you trust?"

Now, I'm not saying you should be out listening to every song about sex, but this one... If I had a daughter, I'd definitely make her listen to it (along with A Rose is Still A Rose by Aretha Franklin). Sometimes, you gotta talk about tough topics. As I said earlier, I agree with the ladies above that you don't want to fill your head with garbage, but it's hard for me to say that in every case you should cut the violence, cut the curse words, and avoid topics such as sex.


I guess my overall stance is that "explicit" content should be viewed on a case by case basis, and taken in doses (you definitely don't want to end up talking like DMX or thinking like the garbage playing on the radio now).

Where do you stand on censorship? Do you think the truth, though not conforming to certain standards, should always be heard? Or do you think ugly truths should be sugar coated?